Women of the Bible Series

Eunice…A Teaching Mother (II Timothy 3:14-15) – PART 2

II Timothy 3:14-15, “But continue thou in the things which thou hast learned and hast been assured of, knowing of whom thou hast learned them; And that from a child thou hast known the holy scriptures, which are able to make thee wise unto salvation through faith which is in Christ Jesus.”

Paul’s advice to Timothy was to stay in the Word. What a glorious testimony, yet an awesome responsibility. Godly parents possess strong faith that is genuine and true, real, and sincere. Parents must trust the Lord Jesus Christ and rear their children to trust Him. They must root their children in the Scripture so that they will know how to walk in Christ day by day.

Eunice did not wait until her children were older to teach them the Bible, but from a child she made them known to him. Deuteronomy 6:6-9 gives parents the command of how they should give their children Scripture at a young age. The Bible commands us to “teach them diligently unto thy children.”

This was to be done in six ways.
1. “Thou shalt talk of them when thou sittest in thine house.” Perhaps the most basic opportunity is when the entire family sits down together for at least one meal a day.

2. Likewise, we are commanded to talk of God’s words “when thou walkest by the way”. In other words, when we travel.

3. Parents are commanded to teach God’s words “when thou liest down” (bedtime).

4. “when thou risest up” (in the morning). Moses repeatedly refers to God’s Words (plural).

5. God, through Moses, commanded that Israel was to “bind them for a sign upon thine hand, and they shall be as frontlets between thine eyes.” Perhaps the greater idea is how one will tie a string around one’s finger as a reminder to do something. God’s Word was to be continually as a reminder.

6. Finally, Israel was to “write them upon the posts of thy house, and on thy gates.” Plaques of Scripture were to be placed on the walls and doorways of the homes of godly people.

For the Scripture to get a child’s heart (Deuteronomy 6:6), we must teach it, we must talk of it, and we must write it. In other words, what they see and hear will become a part of them. It takes external teaching to make an internal change. Scripture does something for a child that a parent cannot. Scripture is God-breathed and is from God and can transform a child’s life. Timothy had a family who exposed him to the Scriptures from his earliest days. He was blessed to have a family who demonstrated faith in the Lord in their lives. They not only exposed him to the Scriptures. They also exposed him to living examples of how the Scripture can inspire human life. Scripture makes a person wise unto salvation. If man needs anything, he needs wisdom, wisdom about how to be saved. It is not enough to learn the Scriptures, or to know that the Scriptures are true. Timothy knew all this. He had learned the Scriptures and he had found the Scriptures to be true. The claims and promises of Scripture had worked in his own life. Timothy also knew his teachers; their lives bore testimony to the truth of Scripture. But this was not enough. He too, must repent, believe, and accept Jesus Christ as his Saviour.

Eunice’s teaching of the Scriptures to Timothy played a part in his salvation (II Timothy 3:15). She taught her son by example. It’s clear from Scripture that she carrie.d out her mission with great success, for her son was filled with genuine faith. As a believing mother, Eunice understood the critical nature of this spiritual nurturing. From a child she taught him about God and the essential truths of God’s Word. She didn’t just speak these truths, she also lived them. We should use every opportunity to teach children the Bible. Encourage children while they’re young to memorize Scriptures, particularly the book of Proverbs. Proverbs is clearly written to young people (Proverbs 1:4). What you put into your child will come out in their adult years. Timothy was a man of God because as a child he was taught the Word of God by his mother. Mothers can impact the lives of their children in countless ways, but the most important way a mother can influence and shape her child’s future is by nurturing his or her spiritual development. All children have the same habit, and that is the tendency to copy (Proverbs 23:26). Be genuine in your love for God and His Word, and your children will copy your actions.

PRAYER: Lord, I thank you for our children. We can trust You with their lives, and ask for the strength of Your Holy Spirit to help us lead them to do Your will. Each child was created on purpose with purpose. We ask You to help us trust You more. Bless our hearts with great faith, daily steps of obedience, and lives full of evident trust in Your love. In Jesus name, Amen.

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Women of the Bible Series

Eunice…A Teaching Mother (II Timothy 1:5) – PART 1

II Timothy 1:5, “When I call to remembrance the unfeigned faith that is in thee, which dwelt first in thy grandmother Lois, and thy mother Eunice; and I am persuaded that in thee also.”

I think of a young man who grew up in a home without a Christian father, but with a godly mother and a godly grandmother; and this young man became a major influence for the cause of Jesus Christ in the first century. His name was Timothy. Timothy had one of the greatest privileges that a child can have: strong Christian parents. His mother and grandmother were steadfast believers who were faithful to God's Word every day of their lives. This was, and still is, the key in any family. How did this young man from the city of Lystra, a mystical place given over to idol worship, develop into such a great leader for the cause of Jesus Christ? He was raised by a godly mother and grandmother. There had been three generations of genuine faith in Timothy’s family: first, his grandmother Lois; then his mother Eunice; and now finally Timothy himself. This faith pleased God (Hebrews 11:6).

Timothy's faith in Christ was genuine and sincere; it was real and true. He honestly trusted Christ as his Saviour and Lord, and he lived for Christ. One of the major reasons for his strength in the Lord was the strong faith of his mother, Eunice, and his grandmother, Lois. They had rooted and grounded him in the faith. What made this mother stand out were her qualities in her own life that she passed down to her own son. When Paul thought of Timothy's faith, he remembered the impact Timothy's mother and grandmother had on his becoming a believer.

Eunice’s husband is not mentioned by name in the Scripture. Eunice was a Jewess and believed, but his (Timothy) father was Greek. This suggests Timothy’s father was probably an unbeliever. The story of Eunice and Timothy gives hope to one parent homes or couples who are unequally yoked. What good things about Timothy can be attributed to the training of his mother? Timothy was strong Christian, and this was due in part to genuine faith of his mother.

Even though faith is something intensely personal, and each person must believe for himself or herself, we are nevertheless influenced in this decision by others. That was certainly true of Timothy. Eunice passed on her faith to her son Timothy by planting the seed of faith in his life. From the first day of his life, Timothy had a constant reminder of the importance of faith and that reminder was his name. Eunice could not put the fruit of faith in her son's life, but she could plant the seeds that she hoped someday would blossom into faith. She did that by giving him the name Timothy.

In Acts 16:1-3, Timothy is called a disciple, well reported of by the brethren, and desired by the Apostle Paul on his journeys. Even Paul recognized the influence of Timothy’s mother in II Timothy 1:5. Materialism and wealth cannot compare to a child growing up to serve God and honor his parents. The name that Eunice gave Timothy showed her desire for Timothy, as his name means “dear to God”. What a person does is greatly due to what his parents taught him.

The Bible reference to Eunice’s faith is referred to her belief in God and His Word. Paul said to Timothy that what he would remember most about Timothy’s mother was that the faith she had was genuine. Unfeigned faith begins salvation, and then continues as one consistently spends time with God and lives with Him. The word “unfeigned” means sincere or without hypocrisy. Hypocrisy comes from trying to “look like” instead of “being” what one should be. Children and teens can read their parents. They can see right through their teachers, and they can turn away in disgust from a believer who plays charades. Eunice passed down this unfeigned faith to her son Timothy because it was her. She put it in herself by having a steady diet of the Word of God (Romans 10:17). A child who grows up with a parent who takes seriously the things of God and has instilled in them a faith that will last their lifetime.

Genuine faith produces a genuine Christian. A child’s convictions and what he or she believes are shaped by the child’s parents. Often when a parent says, “I want my children to choose their own way”, they have already chosen it for them. A teaching mother will train her children in the things of God, but more importantly will live them. Eunice’s faith was portrayed in her life because of a heart that believed in God. You can’t help but teach what you truly believe. Sure, Timothy learned from Paul and others, but his foundation was under the influence of his mother Eunice. Paul told us that Timothy had a real, living faith in his heart. He had more than just a profession of faith; he had an active faith.

Mothers know that they have an especially important role they have been entrusted with. In our troubled world it is a daunting task, but God will strengthen and guide you in your quest to teach your children and to encourage them to choose and to honor Him. The love and influence of Christian mothers is something we should all be thankful for every day of our lives.

PRAYER: Lord, I thank You for my parents who love and care for me. May I honor them and show my love and care for them for the many sacrifices they have made in my life. In Jesus name, Amen.

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Jochebed...God Fearing Mother (Hebrews 11:23) – PART 2

Hebrews 11:23, “By faith Moses, when he was born, was hid three months of his parents, because they saw he was a proper child; and they were not afraid of the king's commandment.”

This passage describes both the faith of his parents and his faith. They had a faith that endured the ensnarement of the enemy. Jochebed was an Israelite, a member of the tribe of Levi. She, and her husband Amram, were evidently very dedicated and godly people. They were willing to defy the order of Pharaoh and keep the commandments of God. Every mother needs a relationship with the Lord. Abraham Lincoln declared, "No man is poor who has had a godly mother."


When Amram and Jochebed saw that their baby, Moses, was a proper child, they hid him for three months, defying Pharaoh’s commandment. Not fearing Pharaoh’s wrath, they trusted God to save their boy, though they had no idea how this would be done. They hoped for a deliverance as yet unseen. Pharaoh had commanded that all male babies be cast into the Nile River (Exodus 1:22). However, Moses' parents courageously defied the King's orders and hid their son. This is parental faith! Moses' life and ministry hinged upon the faith of his parents. The same was true of Timothy (II Timothy 1:5; 3:15). Thank God for parents who stay true to God in the midst of a wicked world. Moses' mother and father ignored the pressures and intimidations of the world around them. The child of God is under constant pressure to conform to this world.

According to Numbers 26:59, Jochebed had three children (Miriam, Aaron, and Moses) and all were used of God. This was not by accident, but due to the fact that she was a God-fearing mother. She wanted her children to value truth and justice, and more than anything, she wanted them to be loyal to the Lord and love the Lord with all their heart. A mother’s influence is so powerful since she is with her children in the early years. Childhood years are an influential, developmental, and molding time. May godly parents raise their children to be successful for the Lord in finding and doing His will for their lives (Romans 12:1-2).

Moses was blessed with a godly mother. She poured out her life into the life of her son. Jochebed refused to give in to a godless system that would have cost her the life of her son. Knowing that Moses would be raised in a godless environment, she faithfully taught Moses the ways of the Lord. The world demands that parent’s hand over their children and allow them to be trained and taught the ways of the world. But children need and deserve better than that! The Bible instructs that parents will teach their children the ways of God and steer them clear of the world and its devises. It takes faith to go against the grain and raise your children for the Lord, but God will bless you, and them, for it! A Christian must determine that God’s law is higher than man’s law (Ecclesiastes 8:2).

A mother’s influence on her child’s life is profound. It’s been said that, “the hand that rocks the cradle rules the world”. Children are influenced more by their parents than most people realize. A child’s desires and dislikes are shaped early in their life as they reflect your character and integrity (Proverbs 22:6). Parent’s are to train and teach their children what they are supposed to believe and how they are to live so that when they are grown they will know what to believe and how to live. Children with no training (that are left to themselves and allowed to do whatever they please) will bring their mother to shame (Proverbs 29:15).

Even though his Egyptian family educated and raised him in a heathenistic society and worshiped false gods, Moses never forgot what his Hebrew mother had taught him. Because of his mother’s faithfulness, he never stopped believing in the true God. A God-fearing mother has a strong faith in God and His Word. Hebrews 11 is considered the hall of heroes of faith. Jochebed displayed her faith in God when she obeyed God and took Him at His Word. When a person builds a house, there are blue prints they must follow in order for the construction to be a success. When a baker bakes, they must follow the directions according to the recipe. A mother molds the life of her child with the Word of God as it instructs her to do so.

Parents, perhaps you will never know the complete impact of the child you are raising and what they may do for the Lord! Give them the best you have while you have them and turn out God-fearing, God-following young men and women who will live for the glory of the Lord! Young adults whom God can use for His glory out into the future. Young people who will instill the same values in their children that you have placed in them.

PRAYER: Lord, I thank You for my mother. A woman who worked hard and made several sacrifices during my childhood that I may become the man I am today. Today, You have stirred my heart and have spoken to me about the importance of strengthening and building relationships. Help me be an example before the younger generation that would impact them to choose to live for You while their still young and to know You personally through Jesus Christ. In Jesus name, AMEN!

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Women of the Bible Series

Jochebed...God Fearing Mother (Hebrews 11:23) – PART 1

Hebrews 11:23, “By faith Moses, when he was born, was hid three months of his parents, because they saw he was a proper child; and they were not afraid of the king's commandment.”

Quotes:
No gift to your mother can ever equal her gift to you—life.
“The most important occupation on earth for a woman is to be a real mother to her children. It does not have much glory to it; there is a lot of grit and grime. But there is no greater place of ministry, position, or power than that of a mother.” - Phil Whisenhunt.
“The mother's heart is the child's schoolroom.” - Henry Ward Beecher.

Years ago, a young mother was making her way across the hills of South Wales carrying her tiny baby in her arms when she was overtaken by a blinding blizzard. She never reached her destination, and when the blizzard had subsided her body was found by searchers beneath a mound of snow. But they discovered that before her death she had taken off all her outer clothing and wrapped it about her baby. When they unwrapped the child, to their great surprise and joy, they found he was alive and well. She had mounded her body over his and given her life for her child, proving the depths of her mother love. Years later that child, David Lloyd George, grown to manhood, became prime minister of Great Britain, and without a doubt, one of England's greatest statesmen.

We are introduced to a woman named Jochebed. She stands out as one of the greatest mothers revealed in the pages of Scripture. Her selfless love and sacrifice made possible the exodus of God's people from Egypt and literally changed the course of history. It would do us well this morning to look at the life of this great mother. As we do, we find characteristics that stand as reminders to all our mothers, teaching them what they should be as well.

Jochebed’s name means “Jehovah glorified”, or “God’s glory”. Jochebed’s faith was rock solid. A God-fearing mother brings glory to God through her children. Not much is said about Jochebed, but what we do know is what she did for God. She brought glory to the Lord and it is seen in how her children turned out for the Lord. Jochebed’s children did some great things. Miriam was a prophetess (Exodus 15:20); Aaron was a high priest for the nation of Israel (Exodus 28:1); and Moses led the children of Israel out of Egypt (Exodus 3:11).

The events around the life of Jochebed are found in Exodus 2:1-10. Not much is spoken about her in Scripture. But what we do find is that she was a courageous, God-fearing mother. Jochebed was not afraid of the king’s commandment (Hebrews 11:23). She feared God rather than obeying the king’s commandment (Acts 5:29). Pharaoh commanded that every Hebrews son be cast into the crocodile infested Nile river. She trusted God and refused to sacrifice her child. Jochebed took baby Moses and placed him in an ark of bulrushes. She was convinced that her son would be used for an important work. She committed Moses to the Lord. Moses would become God’s servant who would lead Israel out of Egypt.

It took faith to place the child in the river. This was the same instrument which was being used to destroy the other babies, (Exodus 1:22). It took faith for this mother to take her hands off the life of this child and leave him to the will of God. It takes faith for us to let our children go, but that day is coming. Some parents live in denial and try to hold on to their children far too long. But the day is coming, sooner or later, when that child must be allowed to become an adult. It takes faith to just leave them in the hands of God, but the child who has a praying mother and a life filled with the Bible and training in the way of the Lord has the advantage and will do well.

Jochebed was raising her son to give him to the Lord. She gave up her son to save her nation, even though she didn't realize the impact that she was making at the time. According to the Bible, God gave His son for us! When He did, God knew exactly what He was doing. In fact, when Jesus came and died for our sins at Calvary. That was the greatest expression of love the world would ever see (Romans 5:8). Jochebed gave her son for Israel. God gave His Son for the world (John 3:16, II Corinthians 5:15). He died for all! He died for you!

When the will of Henry J. Heinz, wealthy distributor of the famous "57 Varieties" line, was read, it was found to contain the following confession: "Looking forward to the time when my earthly career will end, I desire to set forth at the very beginning of this will, as the most important item in it, a confession of my faith in Jesus Christ as my Savior. I also desire to bear witness to the fact that throughout my life, in which there were unusual joys and sorrows, I have been wonderfully sustained by my faith in God through Jesus Christ. This legacy was left me by my consecrated mother, a woman of strong faith, and to it I attribute any success I have attained."

PRAYER: Lord, I thank You for my mother. A woman who worked hard and made several sacrifices during my childhood that I may become the man I am today. Today, You have stirred my heart and have spoken to me about the importance of strengthening and building relationships. Help me be an example before the younger generation that would impact them to choose to live for You while they’re still young and to know You personally through Jesus Christ. In Jesus name, AMEN!

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Women of the Bible Series: Abigail (I Samuel 25:3)
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I Samuel 25:3, “Now the name of the man was Nabal; and the name of his wife Abigail: and she was a woman of good understanding, and of a beautiful countenance: but the man was churlish and evil in his doings; and he was of the house of Caleb.”

There are many people in the Bible that will win your heart through their godly characteristics. In I Samuel 25, we see the life of Abigail, a beautiful woman who displayed wisdom and humility. As you study her life experiences, try to find ways to relate her life lessons to your own situation today. Let’s face it, in life we will have to deal with difficult people. You are called to bear with difficult people who can sometimes create trying circumstances for you. Your walk with Christ can thrive despite the chaos around you.

Abigail was a wise woman of good understanding and who knew God, and therefore knew how to live with an unpleasant and ill-natured man. Abigail was a wise woman not to try to forcibly mold her husband into a better man. Peter instructed, “Likewise, ye wives, be in subjection to your own husbands; that, if any obey not the word, they also may without the word be won by the conversation of the wives; While they behold your chaste conversation coupled with fear” (I Peter 3:1-2).

Trying to change other people, such as co-workers, friends, and family is no less uncertain. We can encourage, share Scripture, pray for, and be an example to others, but only God can transform their hearts. Abigail knew she couldn’t convince her husband to act honorably toward David, but she knew that she could choose to do what would mend the wound of David and honor the Lord. Life may have dealt you this kind of circumstance. I'm speaking of the kind of circumstance that you would have never chosen intentionally. So often we must deal with circumstances that come into our lives uninvited. Learn from Abigail that whatever is over your head—is under His feet.

In I Samuel 25:7, 16 we see that David had protected Nabal’s shepherds and was now asking for a reasonable favor in return: that Nabal would give them provisions when they arrived. Nabal was rich, and so it certainly would not have been any trouble for him to comply, but instead of being wise and generous, he chose to be stingy, which only provoked David to fight. When her husband refused to help David, she intervened by taking the blame and supplying David’s need for food. Gathering an army of 400 men, David set out to destroy Nabal’s household, and had it not been for the wisdom of one woman he would have. Abigail’s wisdom kept herself and many innocent people from being killed, because of her husband’s foolishness. Abigail demonstrated her good understanding though she remained faithful to Nabal till his death, taking supplies to help God’s anointed and eventually marrying David.

God desires that we pursue close relationships with people who will encourage us on our journey for Christ, but some relationships are thrust upon us, and perhaps in Abigail’s case, a hot-headed, difficult, and stubborn husband. While we have the right to make our own choices, we will be held accountable for those decisions. We do not get to choose our consequences. Pride will escalate a conflict, but humility can bring healing to the rift in a relationship. Proverbs 25:11, “A word fitly spoken is like apples of gold in pictures of silver.” Abigail’s wise summation and humble approach caused David to take pause and consider her counsel to avoid bloodshed. Proverbs 29:23, “A man's pride shall bring him low: but honour shall uphold the humble in spirit. Though Abigail was the one caught between a rock and a hard place, we see her courage and compassion as she was the one who bowed herself to the ground before David, interceding for her husband. David thanked God for her, called her blessed, and gladly conceded that her counsel had kept him from losing his head as he was about to take the head of Nabal. Godly wisdom displays itself through godly activity accredited to God’s work through us.

Through Abigail’s example, we see the cycle of wisdom in action:

1. She recognized that David was a godly man (I Samuel 25:18-20). Proverbs 9:10, “The fear of the LORD is the beginning of wisdom: and the knowledge of the holy is understanding.”

1. Abigail avoided conflict (I Samuel 25:18-20). Proverbs 14:16, “A wise man feareth, and departeth from evil: but the fool rageth, and is confident.”

1. Abigail acted wisely to resolve the problem (I Samuel 25:18-24).
   Proverbs 29:11, “A fool uttereth all his mind: but a wise man keepeth it in till afterwards.”

Points to Ponder:

• God can remove the biggest obstacle in your life.
  • Godly people can inspire others to honor God and to follow Christ.

· Your walk with Christ can thrive despite the chaos around you.
· You are called to bear with difficult people who can sometimes create trying circumstances for you.

• Allow God to love everyone through you, especially difficult people.
• Spend time praying about how God can help you with humility and resist the temptation to create conflicts.
• It is considerably easier to deal with the difficult people in our life when we are in the right fellowship with the Lord.

Questions to Consider:

• Has there been a time when you said too much from venting your feelings?
• In what ways has the Lord helped you in holding your tongue from those who have wronged you?
• Has there been a time in which you were quick to judge someone before you had all the facts?
• In what settings do you find it the most difficult to be a godly influence.
• In what ways has the lessons from Abigail helped you handle conflicts with difficult people?
• What is God doing in your life to help you be more obedient to His Word or more trusting of His ways?
• How has this devotion helped you concerning taking matters into your own hands and not allowing God to do what only He can do?
  

Women of the Bible Series: Abigail (I Samuel 25:3)
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I Samuel 25:3, “Now the name of the man was Nabal; and the name of his wife Abigail: and she was a woman of good understanding, and of a beautiful countenance: but the man was churlish and evil in his doings; and he was of the house of Caleb.”

There are many people in the Bible that will win your heart through their godly characteristics. In I Samuel 25, we see the life of Abigail, a beautiful woman who displayed wisdom and humility. As you study her life experiences, try to find ways to relate her life lessons to your own situation today. Let’s face it, in life we will have to deal with difficult people. You are called to bear with difficult people who can sometimes create trying circumstances for you. Your walk with Christ can thrive despite the chaos around you.

Abigail was a wise woman of good understanding and who knew God, and therefore knew how to live with an unpleasant and ill-natured man. Abigail was a wise woman not to try to forcibly mold her husband into a better man. Peter instructed, “Likewise, ye wives, be in subjection to your own husbands; that, if any obey not the word, they also may without the word be won by the conversation of the wives; While they behold your chaste conversation coupled with fear” (I Peter 3:1-2).

Trying to change other people, such as co-workers, friends, and family is no less uncertain. We can encourage, share Scripture, pray for, and be an example to others, but only God can transform their hearts. Abigail knew she couldn’t convince her husband to act honorably toward David, but she knew that she could choose to do what would mend the wound of David and honor the Lord. Life may have dealt you this kind of circumstance. I'm speaking of the kind of circumstance that you would have never chosen intentionally. So often we must deal with circumstances that come into our lives uninvited. Learn from Abigail that whatever is over your head—is under His feet.

In I Samuel 25:7, 16 we see that David had protected Nabal’s shepherds and was now asking for a reasonable favor in return: that Nabal would give them provisions when they arrived. Nabal was rich, and so it certainly would not have been any trouble for him to comply, but instead of being wise and generous, he chose to be stingy, which only provoked David to fight. When her husband refused to help David, she intervened by taking the blame and supplying David’s need for food. Gathering an army of 400 men, David set out to destroy Nabal’s household, and had it not been for the wisdom of one woman he would have. Abigail’s wisdom kept herself and many innocent people from being killed, because of her husband’s foolishness. Abigail demonstrated her good understanding though she remained faithful to Nabal till his death, taking supplies to help God’s anointed and eventually marrying David.

God desires that we pursue close relationships with people who will encourage us on our journey for Christ, but some relationships are thrust upon us, and perhaps in Abigail’s case, a hot-headed, difficult, and stubborn husband. While we have the right to make our own choices, we will be held accountable for those decisions. We do not get to choose our consequences. Pride will escalate a conflict, but humility can bring healing to the rift in a relationship. Proverbs 25:11, “A word fitly spoken is like apples of gold in pictures of silver.” Abigail’s wise summation and humble approach caused David to take pause and consider her counsel to avoid bloodshed. Proverbs 29:23, “A man's pride shall bring him low: but honour shall uphold the humble in spirit. Though Abigail was the one caught between a rock and a hard place, we see her courage and compassion as she was the one who bowed herself to the ground before David, interceding for her husband. David thanked God for her, called her blessed, and gladly conceded that her counsel had kept him from losing his head as he was about to take the head of Nabal. Godly wisdom displays itself through godly activity accredited to God’s work through us.

Through Abigail’s example, we see the cycle of wisdom in action:

1. She recognized that David was a godly man (I Samuel 25:18-20). Proverbs 9:10, “The fear of the LORD is the beginning of wisdom: and the knowledge of the holy is understanding.”

1. Abigail avoided conflict (I Samuel 25:18-20). Proverbs 14:16, “A wise man feareth, and departeth from evil: but the fool rageth, and is confident.”

1. Abigail acted wisely to resolve the problem (I Samuel 25:18-24).
   Proverbs 29:11, “A fool uttereth all his mind: but a wise man keepeth it in till afterwards.”

Points to Ponder:

• God can remove the biggest obstacle in your life.
  • Godly people can inspire others to honor God and to follow Christ.

· Your walk with Christ can thrive despite the chaos around you.
· You are called to bear with difficult people who can sometimes create trying circumstances for you.

• Allow God to love everyone through you, especially difficult people.
• Spend time praying about how God can help you with humility and resist the temptation to create conflicts.
• It is considerably easier to deal with the difficult people in our life when we are in the right fellowship with the Lord.

Questions to Consider:

• Has there been a time when you said too much from venting your feelings?
• In what ways has the Lord helped you in holding your tongue from those who have wronged you?
• Has there been a time in which you were quick to judge someone before you had all the facts?
• In what settings do you find it the most difficult to be a godly influence.
• In what ways has the lessons from Abigail helped you handle conflicts with difficult people?
• What is God doing in your life to help you be more obedient to His Word or more trusting of His ways?
• How has this devotion helped you concerning taking matters into your own hands and not allowing God to do what only He can do?

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Lord, thank You for the "Abigails" who are sensitive enough to You that they can be used as Your vessel to speak to Your servants and for Your service. Thank You for the wisdom of the people found in Your Word that I can also be sensitive to Your leading in my life and be used in ways to promote your kingdom work. In Jesus Name, Amen.

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This is PART 5 of the 5 PART Series titled “Lessons on Finding and Fulfilling God’s Will”.

Lessons on Finding & Fulfilling God’s Will (James 4:8) – PART 5

James 4:8, “Draw nigh to God, and he will draw nigh to you. Cleanse your hands, ye sinners; and purify your hearts, ye double minded.”

Years ago, a man got a job as a state worker with the DOT painting the yellow lines on the highways. The foreman took him to his starting point and told him to start here and begin painting in this direction. After a few days work the foreman came to the man and had a talk with him. He said, ‘John, we need to talk about your work. The 1st day you did real well and you painted 3 miles of line. The 2nd day you didn't do too bad, you painted 2 miles of line. John, I reviewed your work today and found that on the 3rd day you only painted 1 mile of line. What seems to be the problem?’ John replied, ‘Well sir, I’m not painting as much because I keep getting further away from the paint can.’”
James gives us the Biblical prescription for having a close walk with Jesus.

4. We must draw nigh to God (James 4:8). “Draw nigh to God, and he will draw nigh to you.”
When it comes to the believer’s relationship with the Lord, God never says, "You have gone too far this time!" When we take one step toward God, we find He has been waiting for us to do so, and He will quickly come near to us. Luke 15:20, “And he arose, and came to his father. But when he was yet a great way off, his father saw him, and had compassion, and ran, and fell on his neck, and kissed him.” What a wonderful promise! As we seek to get close to God, He will draw close to us. God is always willing to come into closeness with us as we first seek Him. However, He requires for us to first initiate such action. It is called repentance. The inward witness of the Spirit is most clearly heard when you are quiet before Him in prayer. Prayer is like a clean windshield when you are seeking God's will. It allows you to see the road and the signs clearly without distortion or distraction. Prayer is like a rush of brisk air from a rolled down window. Prayer arouses your alertness to the signs. It brings the drowsy 'driver' back to full alertness. It is annoying to attempt to read a sign that is just a bit too far away, or to try to understand the words of someone who is slightly out of hearing range. The problem is distance. Distance complicates communication.

In relationships, time spent apart affects fellowship. When a couple is withdrawn from one other, not enjoying their marriage relationship with each other, this will inevitably lead to a lack of marriage communication. On the other hand, it is a pleasure to watch a couple who has grown in their love through the years. They communicate on a level unknown by couples who simply live at the same address. Often, one spouse can sense how the other feels about a matter without even having to ask. Such people are able to communicate with each other with the slightest squeeze of the hand, the smallest facial expression, or even a certain glance of the eye.

Such is the level of communion desired by the Lord, our personal Guide. He desires that our communion be so close that even the slightest glance of His eye will communicate His will to us. Psalm 32:8, “I will instruct thee and teach thee in the way which thou shalt go: I will guide thee with mine eye.” This guidance is possible only when we are close to the Lord. When our degree of fellowship with Him is so intimate that we are walking by His side, then we will be aware of the slightest communication from the Holy Spirit.

Nothing compares or replaces closeness to the Lord. The closer you are to Him, the closer you will be to finding certainty in the knowledge of His will. If you cannot quite hear God's leading, draw a little closer to Him. Keep in mind, that as you draw closer to the Lord, He will draw closer to you as well (James 4:8).

An elderly couple was driving down the road one Saturday afternoon site seeing. The man’s wife began to reflect on their lives, and she said, ‘Henry, do you remember when we use to be closer than we are now? We used to communicate better; we use to show our affection for one another.’ Henry replied, ‘I’m where I’ve always been, sitting in the same place, you’re the one that’s moved!’”

Is there an obstacle between you and the Lord right now? Has a failure complicated your hopes of a healthy relationship with God? If you’re ready for reconciliation, Jesus has been waiting. He hasn’t given up on you. He is ready to welcome you and place you into service again. Don’t wait another day to tell Him how much you love Him.

Points to Ponder:
· If we do not have a close walk with the Lord, it is not His fault, but ours.
· He has not changed, moved, or pushed us away.
· We are the ones who change, move, and push Him away.
· Today let us return to Jesus and began to have a closer walk with Him.

Questions to Consider:
· How’s your walk with the Lord this morning?
· Are you experiencing God’s presence, power, and purpose in your life?
· Do you feel like you are further away from God than you ever have been?
· Do you feel like there was a time in your life that you were closer to Jesus?

Prayer, Lord, I don’t want wander away from You, but if I do, restore me. I long to remain faithful. Thank You for Your patience, timing, and toughness in restoring me, Lord. Lead me to a life of steadfast service for You. In Jesus’ name, Amen.

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Lessons on Finding & Fulfilling God’s Will (Proverbs 19:20-21) – PART 4

3. God uses godly counsel to instruct us. Proverbs 19:20-21, “Hear counsel, and receive instruction, that thou mayest be wise in thy latter end. There are many devices in a man's heart; nevertheless the counsel of the LORD, that shall stand.”

A young couple took their car out for a Sunday ride one afternoon. While driving on a country road, the car’s engine suddenly died. The young man got out to look at the car, but to his frustration, he didn’t have any idea what to do to get it running again. An older man passing by stopped and offered to help with the car, but the young driver didn’t seem interested. So, Henry Ford, the maker of that car, went on his way and the wise advice and help he could easily have given was never received.

Too often we’re tempted to think, “I don’t want anyone’s input! I’ve already got my mind made up. I already know what I want to do. If I ask for advice, someone might tell me my plan is a bad idea”. The foolish person doesn’t seek or listen to counsel from others before making an important decision. Don’t be indecisive—or decisive on your own.

Below are three Scriptures regarding heeding wise counsels and the consequences of refusing them:
Proverbs 11:14, “Where no counsel is, the people fall: but in the multitude of counsellors there is safety.”
Fools think they don’t need advice, while wise men seek counsel. Without sound counsel, failure is likely. Likewise, multiple counselors give further insight.

Proverbs 12:15, “The way of a fool is right in his own eyes: but he that hearkeneth unto counsel is wise.”
​Fools do not take criticism well. They buck when corrected. They tend to be proud and self-righteous. The wise person will listen to criticism and correction.

Proverbs 13:20, “He that walketh with wise men shall be wise: but a companion of fools shall be destroyed.”
It’s been said, “We will become like the books we read, the movies we watch, the friends we keep, and the media we listen to”. The company we keep does influence us. Bad company corrupts good character. Those who run with fools will eventually be destroyed by their sin (I Corinthians 15:33; Psalm 1:1).

A great problem existing today is that many people lack wisdom.

• A lack of wisdom leads to conflicts.
• A lack of wisdom leads to a loss of happiness.
• A lack of wisdom leads to loss of productivity.
• A lack of wisdom leads to broken relationships.
• A lack of wisdom leads to situations being handled poorly.

Advice is all around us. We're constantly bombarded with advice. Yet, what advice we heed makes a vital difference in our lives. The Bible says much on the subject of counsel and places a priority on the voice to whom you listen. Be so careful with whose advice you follow, and make sure any choice you make follows God's commands. Remember that even one bit of heeded bad advice can take you off God's path for your life.
Psalm 16:7, “I will bless the LORD, who hath given me counsel: my reins also instruct me in the night seasons.”
Proverbs 15:22, “Without counsel purposes are disappointed: but in the multitude of counsellers they are established.”
Proverbs 24:6, “For by wise counsel thou shalt make thy war: and in multitude of counsellers there is safety.”

People can learn wisdom in three ways:
1. From the Bible - This way is the BEST way.
2. From the mistakes of others - This way is a GOOD way.
3. From your own mistakes- The WORST way.

Those who admit they do not know everything and seek godly counsel protect themselves from destruction. Much of the decisions that we make each day is determined by the advice we receive; may we choose to regard wise counsel. Much of the course of our lives is determined by the input we get when making decisions and whether we heed wise counsel when we receive it. Refusing to listen to godly counsel places us on a pathway to destruction. Each of us has a heart that is deceitful and subject to being deceived. For this reason, counsel is so important so that we can evaluate the situation and respond from a Biblical perspective. When we try to learn from those who do not have knowledge and wisdom, we end up worse off than we were when we started. Those who learn from fools will simply become more foolish. Bob Jones, Sr. said, “Education without God makes men clever devils”. There is no source of true wisdom apart from God. When we seek the Lord’s counsel, He promises to bless. But when we attempt to handle matters ourselves, our purposes are disappointed. Are you in a difficult situation right now? Commit the matter to God. God is faithful, and faithful He will forever be!

Points to Ponder:
It’s no mistake God has placed wise people in your life.
You must decide to listen and learn from their counsel.
Listen and learn from those who are instructing you in godly wisdom.

Questions to Consider:
Who are the wise, trustworthy advisers in your life?
Who are the solid Christians who want what’s best for you?
Who do you listen to for counsel and advice?
Are they living to glorify God, or is their advice based on selfish motives?
Who cares more about what God wants for you than what you selfishly want? Advisers don’t indulge you; they instruct you.

PRAYER: Lord God, thank You for the godly people that You have allowed to come into my life. Help me to walk in Your instructions and live a life pleasing unto You. In Jesus name I pray, Amen.

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Lessons on Finding & Fulfilling God’s Will (I Corinthians 2:12) – PART 3

The Bible is a lamp unto our feet and a light unto our path. There are times when we need the specifics. There are times when we need to know the direction where to take the next step. There are times when we need the exact name of the place to go. There are some things in life that we will not discover any other way than the Holy Spirit teaching them to us through personal study of and the preaching of God’s Word. The Lord uses the Scriptures and His Spirit to guide, fill, and accomplish the Father’s will in the believer’s life. This is where the Holy Spirit of God illuminates a specific Scripture and makes it speak directly to the need of the moment and He gives us peace concerning the matter.

2. God uses His Spirit to instruct us. “Now we have received, not the spirit of the world, but the spirit which is of God; that we might know the things that are freely given to us of God” (I Corinthians 2:12).

We are instructed to follow the Spirit of God (Romans 8:14. John 16:13). Jesus didn’t leave us here as orphans. He gave us the Holy Spirit to be with us forever (John 14:16–18, 26). The Holy Spirit is always present to give guidance in our lives. The Holy Spirit not only influences us to seek God’s way, but He leads us into all truth, and teaches us the things we ought to know (I John 2:27). John is not saying that we do not need a teacher. One of the gifts of the Spirit is the “gift of teaching”. He is saying the Holy Spirit will give you an anointing whereby you will be able to understand all truth. God will never tell you to do something contrary to His Word.

Sometimes God, in His grace, uses results to give us an undeserved second chance. At times we run ahead of God in a decision and bypass the will of God due to our impatience. Results have a way of bringing us up short, informing us abruptly that we have lost our way. They are like the rude awakening experienced by the driver who suddenly discovers that the unfinished expressway has ended. Immediately he realizes how foolish he has been to drive around that warning sign encountered earlier. This can be a manifestation of God's grace, for in many cases, we can return to the point where the wrong decision was made and begin again. We still lose time, but God mercifully allows us to return to the right road of His will.

God may also show His grace by closing a door in our face which otherwise would have led to disaster. Although, we often get frustrated when this occurs, we should give thanks. God does not continually run around slamming doors to protect us from our own foolishness or disobedience. God knows that often a burn on the hand or a good spanking teaches a mischievous child far more effectively than a thousand artificial roadblocks. Of course, such roadblocks will not be needed if we are sincere and obedient before God.

Many people claim to want the Holy Spirit’s guidance, but they fail to be obedient to His Word and follow the Holy Spirits leading. Yet, these are the very tools the Spirit of God uses to guide us. If you’re not willing to follow the leading of the Scriptures, then you’re not giving the Spirit much to work with.

​A park ranger at Yellowstone National Park was leading a group of hikers to a fire lookout. The ranger was so intent on telling the hikers about the flowers and animals that he considered the messages on his two-way radio distracting, so he switched it off. As the group neared the tower, the ranger was met by a nearly breathless lookout, who asked why he hadn’t responded to the messages on his radio. A grizzly bear had been seen stalking the group, and the authorities were trying to warn them of the danger. Any time we tune out the Holy Spirit, or ignore the warnings of the Bible, we put ourselves and those around us in danger. If you insist on deciding against God’s Word and wise counsel, then the results will be entirely your own fault. God desires to speak to you through His Word and by His Spirit. The Holy Spirit seeks to guide us to greater blessings if we will listen to His leading. If you aren't in tune with God and daily walking in His Spirit, you can miss His leading. As a Christian, your life is guided by the Holy Spirit's work in your life, but if you aren't careful, you can often tune out God's leading.

Questions to Consider:
Are you daily listening to the Spirit's leading?
Are you reading God's Word and attentively listening to it being preached?

Points to Ponder:
Keep a tender heart towards God's work and follow whatever direction He leads you.
You'll never go wrong by following the Holy Spirit.

PRAYER: Lord God, Your Spirit leads me. Help me to rely on Your Spirit, Who is always with me. May Your will be done on earth and in my life, I pray in the name of Jesus, the light of the world, amen.

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Lessons on Finding & Fulfilling God’s Will – PART 2

God has a plan and design for your life. You are not a leaf that fell by chance to be scattered by the wind. Scripture says the steps of a good man are “ordered” by the Lord (Psalm 37:23). Much of the will of God is wrapped up in becoming the Christian we ought to be. If are being the Christian we should be, we will be doing what we should do and end up where we ought to end up.

Psalm 32:8, “I will instruct thee and teach thee in the way which thou shalt go: I will guide thee with mine eye.” If you have ever had trouble determining God’s will for your life, you’re not alone. How in the world do we know what God wants? To know God’s will, we must totally surrender to God’s will. Too often, our tendency is to make God’s decision for Him. When we walk, we do so because we are headed somewhere. That is direction. God has promised to instruct us and guide us in the way we should go. That guidance is by His very omniscient eye. He who knows all and sees all knows far better than we the path to take.

We should never go to God with options and expect Him to choose one of our preferences. When we go to Him, we should approach Him with empty hands—no hidden agendas, no crossed fingers, nothing behind your back. Go to Him with a willingness to do whatever He says. If you surrender your will, then He will “make you perfect in every good work to do his will…” Hebrews 13:21.

How do we receive this direction from the Lord?

1. God uses His Word to instruct us. “Thy word is a lamp unto my feet, and a light unto my path” (Psalm 119:105).

In the darkness of our uncertainty, God uses the light of His Word to direct our steps. One way we can find God’s will is by reading His Word. The good news is that God doesn’t leave us in the dark. Not only does He give us a path, but He also provides a lamp to light the way. The Bible lights up your path so you can navigate the way forward. When you are uncertain, or feel like you’re in a dark place, turn on the light of God’s Word. Make it your daily practice to read the Bible.

A light on a path simply shows us the direction in which we are going, but a lamp shows us the next step. A light, no matter how bright, will not show us all the twists and turns ahead on the road, but it will give us a general sense of direction. Notice: That is what the Bible does. It lights the sinners path to Christ; it lights the Christians path to glory. Proverbs 4:18, “But the path of the just is as the shining light, that shineth more and more unto the perfect day.” Psalm 37:23, “The steps of a good man are ordered by the Lord: and he delighteth in his way.” Psalm 119:101, “I have refrained my feet from every evil way, that I might keep thy word.” Psalm 119:133, “Order my steps in thy word: and let not any iniquity have dominion over me.” Proverbs 3:5-6, “Trust in the Lord with all thine heart; and lean not unto thine own understanding. In all thy ways acknowledge him, and he shall direct thy paths.” Proverbs 16:9, “A man's heart deviseth his way: but the Lord directeth his steps.” When we follow the guidance of Scriptures, we will never get off track.

The only way to guarantee that we do not go off track is to have the truth that will guide us. Just as a compass can guide us through dark and uncharted paths, God’s Word can guide us through uncertain and difficult circumstances. Therefore, we must simply trust it—over our feelings, over our own wisdom, and over contrary advice others may give us. Because the Bible is inspired by God, it is without error, and we can always trust it.

The Bible does not unroll the whole map of life before us. If it did, we would be too scared because we would see the tests, trials, and deep dark valleys along the way. God did not begin with Abraham by asking him to give up his son, but he did by asking him to give up his father. Years later, he asked him to offer up his son.

Keep a list of particular passages that have given you direction. The Scriptures help you see where your feet are standing and where the path leads. God may not show you miles ahead on the path, but He’ll show you the next step. God does not give roadmaps, but as you follow Him He will reveal His will unto you. In the wilderness wanderings, He used a pillar of cloud by day and fire at night (Exodus 13:21).

PRAYER: Lord, Your Word is a lamp to my feet and a light to my path. Thank You that You don’t leave me in the dark, alone. You give me light. Your Word instructs me. Help me to follow Your Word. May Your will be done on earth and in my life, In Jesus name I pray, AMEN!

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Lessons on Finding & Fulfilling God’s Will – PART 1

Ephesians 5:17, “Wherefore be ye not unwise, but understanding what the will of the LORD is.”

One of the most common questions people ask me is, “What is God’s will for my life?” The reality is that all of us need guidance and direction, and that is why God has given us His Word and the Holy Spirit to help apply it to our circumstances and decisions. No one has ever gone wrong by following the Bible’s instructions. The reason is because the Bible is an infallible guide for our life, containing all that we need to please God. It is the Word of God that makes us wise (Proverbs 2:6). The Christian will never do the will of God until he or she understands what God's will is. So many people have missed the will of God because they do not know the Word of God. There are a lot of good books out there and I enjoy reading good books. However, no other book can do what the Bible does.

The Bible is:

• My Candle When It's Dark
• My Comfort When I'm Depressed
• My Companion When I'm Deserted
• My Compass When I Doubt
• My Counselor When I'm Discouraged
• My Consultant When I Decide

Many today seem to believe that it is impossible to fully know the will of God. They appear to think that if someone isn't able to reveal God's will for their lives then they will never know or understand it. Paul says we are to have understanding. The word understanding is defined by Webster as, comprehending; apprehending the ideas or sense of another, or of a writing; learning or being informed. The believer must understand what God's will is. We are faced with situations daily; therefore, we need to know wisdom and how to apply it to our lives.

God's will is available and it is understandable. However, we must look in the right places if we are to find and understand it. It is our obligation to obtain that understanding and live by it. All believers are responsible to pray for and seek the will of God in their lives. The best choices we can make are the wise choices. We make wise choices by understanding what the will of the Lord is and by seeking God’s view on a matter. God's will is found within His Word. If you want to be wise concerning the will of God, seek His will within His Word.

God has certain things He wants to accomplish in the world. God has certain things He wants to achieve in our lives. God has certain precepts He wants us to live by so that we can get the most out of life. God has certain ways He wants us to relate to others. God has certain responses He wants us to make to the crises of life. All of these things can be summarized in the one phrase: "the Lord's will."

What is God’s will for my life? Am I even traveling on the right path? When I come to a fork in the road, which choice should I make? How do I receive this direction from the Lord? Here are three ways the Lord instructs us in the way that He is leading us.
1. God uses His Word to instruct us.
2. God uses His Spirit to instruct us.
3. God uses godly counsel to instruct us.

On an overcast night, a ship was fighting rough seas as it approached the narrow entrance to a harbor. To the inexperienced passenger, the chances of finding and navigating the path to safety seemed remote at best. The slightest miscalculation could result in disaster. The captain, calm and relaxed, was asked by the nervous passenger, “Captain, Sir, how do you know when to guide the ship into the harbor entrance?” The captain pointed to the random dots of light on the dark shore. 'Do you see those three brightest lights there on the land?' The passenger looked, then nodded. 'I have learned,' continued the captain, 'to steer my ship parallel to the shore until those three lights all line up as one. When the three lights agree, then I know that I can guide my ship safely into the narrow entrance of the harbor.'

So, it is with God's will. When you have agreement among the three lights of God's Word, godly counsel, and the inward witness of the Holy Spirit, you can proceed with confidence. Sure, other road signs may add support, but those three are essential. If one of those signs does not agree with the others, you should assume that something is wrong. If, for instance, you feel that the Spirit is prompting you, and that circumstances are positive, but your course of action violates God's Word, you can be certain that it is not God's will. Obeying this principle will save you great heartache and bring confidence into your decision making. It is exciting to watch God's Word, circumstances, and the inward witness slowly move into perfect alignment. With such agreement, there is certainty that you have found the narrow entrance into God's perfect individual will.

PRAYER, Lord God, thank You that Your will for my life is not a mystery. Please forgive me for resenting and resisting Your attempts to change me. I choose now to cooperate fully with Your desire to transform me. Anything You want to teach me, I am willing to learn. Anything You want to change in me, I am available to receive. Thank You for loving me enough to make me more and more like Jesus, in whose name I pray, Amen.

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